I may have finally my wife getting into heel sex

[FredMartin78]

Hi all,

I am french and have been following this amazing forum for a long time now more as a consumer than a contributor. However you may find some nice pictures of me or my wife's in my older posts.

Before my wife I was 6 years with a girlfriend who never admitted or at least tried to understand my fetish and how much it can hurt to not be able to share this (partially at least) with her. She treated me like a disgusting monster etc. may sound familiar to some of you. I only used regularly her heels (she had a very limited number) as cum dumpsters but I was used to have my secret place where I stored my eBay used heels. She discovered a few times that I was also taking some candid pictures. These situations were not very comfortable to me even if I admit that hiding candid pictures can be also disturbing for the woman you are sharing your life with. Anyway we broke up for other reasons. Then I promised to never end up with a girl not willing to accept it and hopefully play with it.

I had nice time with other girls who enjoyed playing with my fetish but I was never been able to explore the wide world of my fetish.

My "thing I like" is nice small feet size 5-6 US with nail polish in high wedges or high heel sandals. I am also keen in platform peeptoes. All have to be 4-5 inches high but not higher. I hate flats (even if I can admire small feet in cute luxury flip flops). I also hate sneakers and all other flat shoes.

Finally I met a girl 7 years back, I directly recognize she was not at all a fan of heels and to be honest she wore only once a pair of ugly sandals with something like 1 inch max. Her typical shoes were Vans and all this bullshit. I knew it would be difficult to live with my fetish and a girl not into this. But she was the most sensitive person I found on earth and I decided to give a go knowing what may happen next...

After a few month I started to tell her that I would be the happiest man I she could wear from time to time a pair of high heels. Being around 1m83 tall (6 ft) she told me that she didn't hate anything more than being taller than everyone including me (I am 3 inch smaller) but if she would have been smaller she wouldn't wear anything else but high sexy heels because she definitely like heels. I knew it would be hard to make her understand that being tall is far from being the worst thing on earth. Anyway this didn't stop be to believe in our future and kept my fetish hidden. With the time she accepted to wear from time to time high heels but she was never comfortable going outside. They always stayed outside of the bed even if I could enjoy a few times to fuck her with heels on her feet. But this doesn't not turn me on a all. I need to see that my wife wear heels all the day and regularly, getting back from work with feet tired being high arched in sexy high heels, they deserve a feet/shoe massage with my cock... Ok that was one way to say it I like nothing more than abusing feet and shoes being for real in sexy high heels and not for show. I hope you get it.

After 6 years it was too hard for me to keep my fetish hidden and I started to buy used shoes, watched a lot of shoe job videos and took thousands of candids. I could not think all the day long other than fucking shoes. I got king of crazy, no shit. And what had to happen happened and she discovered my Terabyte of shoe job videos and candids. She was mad but wanted to understand. We had nice and long email discussions (I was ashamed to talk about this directly with her) and she told me she would like to try. She told me that knowing I would see her as the sexiest woman wearing high heels, she wouldn't feel ashamed anymore being on 4 inch heels going outside. She told me she will definitely go buying shoes with me and train her feet to wear them regularly and try to go outside. What she asks in return are hot fucks (she is really enjoying frequent sex, I could not offer with involving my impossible fetish).

I bought her a 5 inch Guess (model Reign check it out on the Internet) Wedges and she wore them for our first after-talk dinner. After that amazing evening we discussed 3 hours about it together I told her all the details of my fetish and she closed the discussion by telling me she loves me and will do her best to satisfy my fetish.

Now, this story is no bullshit or invention, and I need your feedback (guys and girls) on all this and maybe your experience in order to nut fuck that up and initiate her as good as I can into shoe jobs, shoe fuck and private outside candids. What is the best way of going forward with all this ? My dream would be that I can take videos and share this here for example, because this is also part of my fetish. Being realistic that would be another challenge... But who knows ?

Thank you all. Fred

[dangeroussail]

ask her if she will were heels in bed to make things more kinky, let her choose them and you buy them for her, just take it slowly from there. just make sure whenever she wears them that you satisfy her needs in every-way possible, that way she will want to put them on for you everytime.

[Shiny Shoejobs]

Yes, there is nothing worse for a woman to find her partner's porn collection and realise that he has been hiding a big part of who he was. That's why you (ALL of you) better tell your partner about your fetish early in the relationship otherwise it may end up badly. There is nothing to be ashamed. Women also know how and why high heels are sexy.
So the best thing to do is to explain why you like shoejob, and how you find her sexy etc... Then you should maybe watch some videos with her. Try to find very sexy ones with nice shoes (like mine ) and then see her reaction. If she likes it, ask her to try and show her how powerful she is when in control... The last step is to record the session... but it takes time. She needs to get comfy with it. So be patient.

[Havoc]

Hello Fred,

Nice story and u are lucky man. I told my partner about my fetish and shes okay with that. she never wore heels but she did it for me.

And my advice? Always truth and slowly, gently. Dont take it too far or u can loose it if she get upset. for example my partner told me to lick her heels and i wanted her to trample my hand with heel. So i lift her heel a bit and slide my hand under. She took a look down and smiled and then.... she pushed sooo hard that she nearly impaled my hand. by doing that i knew she agreed with that. Thats it, simple.... if she put her heel aside my hand.... i would know that she doesnt like.... dont ask why etc. dont be annoying or u will loose everything. Its like climbing a ladder, u may fall

hope u get far with that and keep us informed..... remember.... gently and slowly

[FredMartin78]

Thank you all very much for your good messages. We had two very long talks about it, and I am on a cloud guys ! You cannot imagine how keen she is to try this out. She is very very excited because she understood the power of her heels. She told me that despite she is too tall she will wear heels as much as she can. She wants to train her feet to wear heels !

I will write more hen I have some time and post the first shot of her feet we clicked together knowing the fetish in behind.

I am in a dream ! I have been waiting that moment for more than 15 years !!

[dangeroussail]

so glad you have sorted this out. please keep us posted.

[weirdo]

I love seeing tall women (those legs!!) wear tall heels in public, and as she gets more used to it as long as you always compliment her on it she will be more willing and happier to do it. I am not particularly a big fan of wedges but I would suggest tall heels with a platform so that it will be more comfortable, so there will be less "training". Other than that, I'm very happy for you!

[sandalfan1]

As others have said go slow and let things progress naturally. Only introduce one thing at a time and let her get used to it before adding another. Make a point to tell her that it is her in the heels that turns you on, not just the heels! They need constant reassurance. When she feels secure you won't believe what she will be capable of! As far as pics go, when you are in public and like a pair of heels she is wearing, ask if you can snap a pic. Do this often. Eventually she will catch on and you will have many pics. When you get to the point of cumming her heels then you can ask if you can take a pic of that. She will be used to you photographing her feet already so it won't be a huge deal.