Help me - to fullfill my boyfriends dreams

Overkneelover98 · Post by **Overkneelover98** » Wed Jul 26, 2023 12:19 pm

Hello everyone!
I hope someone can help me out in my current situation and can give me tipps:
I have been in a very happy relationship for over 1 year
I know my boyfriend has a shoe/sock fetish - I have absolutely no problem with that and am open and "ready" for it.
I've already bought overknees, boots, tights,... just for him.
However, I'm scared that I can't do him justice... but he didn't say anything to me either - even when I asked him what else he‘d like me to do…
In his last relationship he broke up due to the fact that she didn’t „match“/complete his preferences. And I know that he doesn't want to live completely without it either.
I just want to do him justice and make him happy - because I love him very much and I‘m scared our relationship might break due to the same issue! That's why I wanted to ask for tips here.
I hope you can help me!
Thank you very much and best regards!
Also: please excuse my bad writing I am not a native speaker!

Victoria_moe · Post by **Victoria_moe** » Wed Jul 26, 2023 12:50 pm

It would be hard to dissapoint him, in my e, experience, if you're into the same fetish as him, it almost always works out

Net King · Post by **Net King** » Fri Jul 28, 2023 1:24 pm

Overkneelover98 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 12:19 pm However, I'm scared that I can't do him justice... but he didn't say anything to me either - even when I asked him what else he‘d like me to do…

This seems to be the opposite of the usual situation!
If fetish getting in the way of a romantic relationship? The usual problem is the guy is attracted to the woman's sneakers rather to the woman as a person. He would seem unsure in this case. So one thing to try is to work on a normal relationship in a way that does not involve his fetish. This can be in addition to pandering to his fetish - there is a right time for everything. Also he probably wants sexual activity short of intercourse involving your shoes or sneakers but is too afraid to ask. The opportunity will present itself and it will be great fun. The advantage is you have the fun without the risks involving intercourse. The other thing - absolute discretion is needed. This is very private to both of you.

Victoria_moe · Post by **Victoria_moe** » Fri Jul 28, 2023 1:42 pm

Net King wrote: ↑Fri Jul 28, 2023 1:24 pm
Overkneelover98 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 12:19 pm However, I'm scared that I can't do him justice... but he didn't say anything to me either - even when I asked him what else he‘d like me to do…
This seems to be the opposite of the usual situation!
If fetish getting in the way of a romantic relationship? The usual problem is the guy is attracted to the woman's sneakers rather to the woman as a person. He would seem unsure in this case. So one thing to try is to work on a normal relationship in a way that does not involve his fetish. This can be in addition to pandering to his fetish - there is a right time for everything. Also he probably wants sexual activity short of intercourse involving your shoes or sneakers but is too afraid to ask. The opportunity will present itself and it will be great fun. The advantage is you have the fun without the risks involving intercourse. The other thing - absolute discretion is needed. This is very private to both of you.

I would say the metaphysics of a fetish itself are hard to diclue, but there is a line between obsession aand reality. It is not a good thing, obvs, is anyone is more interested in the item more than the actual person using said item. Normally, as would go with me, i think, that the item is meaningless unless you have feeling for the person using it, at this point, is the fetish active to the point of wanting to use it.

The guys i have been with have (for the most part) had fetishes that they are shy to admit during sex, but i simply as them, what is your inner most fetish, what is soemthing you want to do but afraid to ask, most of the time when you propse this question, and give assurance that it's okay, and you are open to things, will they tell you. and you can take it from there.

Of course there are those who obsess with items past the point of a healthy relationship.

Net King · Post by **Net King** » Sat Jul 29, 2023 6:16 pm

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The guys i have been with have (for the most part) had fetishes that they are shy to admit during sex, but i simply as them, what is your inner most fetish, what is soemthing you want to do but afraid to ask, most of the time when you propse this question, and give assurance that it's okay, and you are open to things, will they tell you. and you can take it from there.

Of course there are those who obsess with items past the point of a healthy relationship.
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Yes, excellent sentiments. Been through this with my long standing partner and it has been lots of fun over the years. She has not been comfortable with intercourse but has kindly recognised my desire for fulfilment despite not quite liking it herself. Bless her. The circumstances were right one day and it just happened.

Here is a rough description of what happened that day:
http://netking29.freeservers.com/volley/index.htm

Post by **Wetshoe** » Sun Aug 27, 2023 7:09 am

Overkneelover98 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 12:19 pm Hello everyone!
I hope someone can help me out in my current situation and can give me tipps:
I have been in a very happy relationship for over 1 year
I know my boyfriend has a shoe/sock fetish - I have absolutely no problem with that and am open and "ready" for it.
I've already bought overknees, boots, tights,... just for him.
However, I'm scared that I can't do him justice... but he didn't say anything to me either - even when I asked him what else he‘d like me to do…
In his last relationship he broke up due to the fact that she didn’t „match“/complete his preferences. And I know that he doesn't want to live completely without it either.
I just want to do him justice and make him happy - because I love him very much and I‘m scared our relationship might break due to the same issue! That's why I wanted to ask for tips here.
I hope you can help me!
Thank you very much and best regards!
Also: please excuse my bad writing I am not a native speaker!

If he won't tell you, perhaps experiment by doing all different things til you find something he seems to enjoy even if he won't tell you? To me, it's nice if a girl is just doing something because I like it, and much better if she is doing it because she likes it too. For example, because of filming for my other websites I've seen countless times, girls soaking their heels for videos etc. but unforgettable when I had a girlfriend long ago who just stepped into the shower in her boots before she knew I liked it. I don't remember many things from that long ago, but I still remember that clearly.

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