Shoesession

Do u like sneakers???

dirtyx2022 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 11, 2022 3:50 pm I have a thing for females in sneakers since HS and I thougjht i was weird and then after scourimg the web discovered porn and stories.

As of late with my wife has been out of town ive found myself noticing and checking out women in sneaks more and more in public

I love my wife but i feel like im hooked on looking more and more

I dont act but how do i get this under control

I definitely feel it. I actually thought it was an issue at some point because I was obsessed with a few pairs of old/dirty sneakers and I needed women to wear them during sex in order for me to feel satisfied. A lot of women are un-surprisingly off put or outright disgusted by it - which isn't fun to hear.

I'm currently seeing therapy for it, and I was told I could either embrace it, or live uncomfortably. It's a real tough choice but I think it comes down to what you can handle to live without. I think in your case it might be interesting to get the opinion of a therapist? There are some that specialize in this stuff and for me it was quite eye-opening.

Also for anyone who is considering it, please get therapy. Not because you are crazy or this or anything specific, but everyone needs one. Currently have one and it was the best decision I've ever made.

Thatoneguy109 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 11, 2022 10:42 pm Also for anyone who is considering it, please get therapy. Not because you are crazy or this or anything specific, but everyone needs one. Currently have one and it was the best decision I've ever made.

Yes 100%! I feel like they're more like life coaches. They help you and give advice/exercises to try when you feel like you need to change something. They're also there for you when something goes wrong in your life.

Our brains are wired like this.
It is a natural instinct to look or notice those combinations of sneakers and girls/women that satisfy our tastes and preferences, wherever these may occur.

To avoid problems it is important to recognize which limits do not exceed, think and analyze our behaviors, how we can appear to other people.
it is useful to remember that even when a woman dresses specially sexy, with looks and tastes more known and required for this purpose, you must avoid to point out to her that we are watching with too much focus and interest.

dirtyx2022 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 11, 2022 8:02 pm Im not tired of it but i feel myself looking more and more was at the grocery store checking out see the cashier cute can see shes wearing worn nikes i was lookin and then she stands by the register i felt she noticed

LOL. Probably she doesn’t know this taste and attraction but insecure and uncertain has preferred to hide the object of excessive attentions, may have felt embarrassment or shame but not imagining that also worn Nike can attract someone.

Wow well written insightful

Definitely an obsession and one that gets stronger as I get older. I certainly make a point at looking for nicely worn sneakers and I’m ok with that, most guys look at women whether it’s breasts, legs or anything else. Maybe we make a little more effort to see our objects of desire particularly because most women have no idea these things are attractive to us and also because unlike breasts, we’re unlikely to get called out as looking at a pair of shoes isn’t the same as gazing at a pair of breasts. I think where the obsession gets bad is when you start taking unnecessary risks - either photos of sneaks being worn and she notices, approaching women to talk about them or in my case getting my hands on them if a risky situation presents itself. Otherwise I just enjoy it. Hope you get the balance right.

Exactly. And believe it most women think their roll is to control their man and dont view marriage as a partnership with both having needs. Yesterday she literally told me I’m embarrassing bc I have pics of my shoes in my photo gallery. You have no idea. How old are you

Yeah. Embrace it or live in disgrace. Will have 2.0 yrs I’m fully embracing myself

My wifes fine w it i buy her sneaks nike since we started i get teased and she lets finish me inside and out