Living with a shoefetish

[shoddy90]

........ a place where those who want or feel a need to share/discuss, offload, to get others opinions on practically anything related to the fetish, can do so. Sensible boundaries apply anyway, and in addition please be; if not kind, then at least considerate that we are all different, that others shoe interests, experiences and behaviors may not exactly suit your own.

[shoddy90]

It can be very exciting, that special thrill exploring some new closet opportunity and taking pleasure from the things waiting there, shoes which it can appear have been forgotten by the owner, and some their favored choice for daily wear.
Recently, I have been thinking of past neighbors, relations and friends shoes, times I decided a pair or more had been forgotten and were unlikely to be missed, so I added them to my collection.
But the intense erotic pleasures are not always guilt free, and while there are others who deserve apology also, I am sorry nan, stealing them was wrong, although I can honestly say that your new shoes enjoyed a much more exciting life with me than you could ever imagine.

[Mr.fantasy]

I'm enjoying my fetish haha. My dad's gf has a closet full of heels and every morning I get her peep toes and go to town, spread the cum out throughout all of the shoes, and them dry. But, I did notice how the shoe I use every other day is suffering from wear and tear from me using it, So I feel a little guilty but then again she may throw them away and that would me by opportune moment to find them to keep for myself, forever c:

[Bandolinohaze]

I hope this thread can be a place where there more serious discussion of the hows and whys of how we who have a shoefetish feel about the attraction and sexualization of shoes.Shoes by definition are just objects to be worn on the foot to provide protection for the feet although an amount of style have evolved as the footwear industry has evolved and promoted it. The rest of the discussion through out this webpage takes shoes assumes the purpose is for to be used as masturbation recepticles and various exploits of stealing,buyig or borrowing them for the means to this end. Iam not trying make the thread a complete downer for fear that it wont be popular and read. ANYWAY I doubt that i am alone on this forum whose honest earliest stimulation aimed at shoes was initially was from an experience of as they say childhood sexual abuse.The women who i have frequently through various othe rposts throughout the whole webpage (and other boards) described as my aunt. did this. She did not catch me inher closet She took me at an age where I wasnt yet horney into her bathroom and masturbated me into her shoes.to say that I did not completely enjoy it would be wrong.So much so that i had difficulty considering thelling my parents or anyone to report her I have forgiven her

[sanK-B]

Well it´s sometimes difficult to talk seriously in english when you're not english..

[shoddy90]

Well it´s sometimes difficult to talk seriously in english when you're not english..

The board is cosmopolitan sanK-B, although in these things, even those whose first language is English may find it difficult to write their experiences and feelings in appropriate words.
You could consider using your preferred language, or there is babelfish and google translate to help others.

Le conseil est cosmopolite coulé-B, bien que dans ces choses, même ceux dont la langue maternelle est l'anglais peuvent trouver difficile d'écrire leurs expériences et leurs sentiments dans les mots appropriés.Vous pourriez envisager d'utiliser votre langue préférée, ou il ya Babelfish et Google Translate pour aider les autres.

Bon Chance

[Bandolinohaze]

I was asked in the "Age" thread about my counseling and how it relates to paraphilia. Paraphilia..I looked it up..and its definition..if whatt we do with shoes isn't paraphilia it is very very close.Anyway I have been in lots of counseling and recovery and therefore counsel others.I have been in counseling based on not having much intimacy with any female relationship and therefore each of my relationships have failed.These relationships HAVE NOT FAILED BECAUSE OF THE FETISH OR PARAPHILIAS but I have not been able to be erect and stay erect without being stimulated by womens shoes and or along with acting as a transvestite ot transsexual. What had been repressed by me was that I had been the victim of childhood sexual contact with an adult. beginning when I was 9 through 11 and pre-adolescence for me,the mothers a two friends of mine( I have called her an aunt in my posts on shoesession.com) not only did not just catch me in her closet.I have not found a memory yet of noticing her shoes and her closet anything like that,she chose to cooercise to her bedroom and mostly her bathroom and forcabily masturbate me into her shoe or into her mouth. What I have realized and that my sponsor confirms and agrees with, about how i feel about shoes.is masturbation with shoes and or as a transvestite is the only pleasureful sex I experience.My sponsor assume what i am trying to do is relive and mentally undo my childhood sexual experience.

[feverpitch]

I'm hoping that I can find a girl who likes this fetish (or at least can understand it). However I live in a very conservative town and stuff like this is treated like a disease.

[trururu]

Well, I'm not an english speaker too, but I'll try, cause I've got a question, and I hope u will help me.

So I've been single for 3 years, and all that time I was masturbating with some shoes that I've got. Now I have a gf, and it looks like that I can't get a normal boner when I see her pussy and we start fucking. That's a real problem cause I don't want her to know about my fetish yet, and I can't fuck her well, cause I'm not horny enough when the game starts. I do really want to fuck her. I even tried to imagine shoes while sex , but it doesn't help.

What should I do?

[trururu]

Well, I'm not an english speaker too, but I'll try, cause I've got a question, and I hope u will help me.

So I've been single for 3 years, and all that time I was masturbating with some shoes that I've got. Now I have a gf, and it looks like that I can't get a normal boner when I see her pussy and we start fucking. That's a real problem cause I don't want her to know about my fetish yet, and I can't fuck her well, cause I'm not horny enough when the game starts. I do really want to fuck her. I even tried to imagine shoes while sex , but it doesn't help.

What should I do?