I've been with my wife for ten years. She knows I love her in heels but she thinks a little wierd. She wore heels in a couple of times but not for a long time. I've tried to her over my obsession with heels but just gets worse.
I was hoping for some advice as I'm afraid of what my wife think of me if I ask her for a shoe job. I haven't seen her heels for over a year now. My sister in law wore heels the other day and I think about it a lot now.
Thanks in advance.
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Re: Wife shoe job
Just my personal opinion. I wouldn't stay with a woman so incompatible in such an important way. Curious what could compensate for that.
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Re: Wife shoe job
Its something you really need to talk to her openly about. If she understands more and you open up to her it may give an avenue of communication and pleasure you both can enjoy. It puzzles me that women wear shoes to enhance their feet and appearance, but then feel its weird if their man expresses more than a passing interest in her and the shoes?
Really? Then why bother showing your legs and feet? Why paint your toenails and show them off? Why wear open toe shoes of any styles?
Perhaps she doesn't understand that for you, us, its far more than a look. Its as much an arousal issue as seeing her nipples/breasts, even to see her pussy. Maybe express to her you want to enjoy and pleasure all of her, right down to her toes. Then offer to give her foot massages, see where that leads. Other side is if she really loves and respects you then she should understand your feelings too.
I wish I had openly expressed it with my 1st wife, and she had well over a 100 pairs of sexy 70s and 80s heels she wore daily with pantyhose. After we divorced I dated a gal that caught on to my fetishes though I never openly said anything about them and she used my fetish to her advantage. My 2nd wife, I told her openly about it and she was great about it, until we were married then it all went cold. My current fiance, I have been very open about it and she loves the attention on her feet, and she indulges me all the time. She is even ok for shoejobs, cumming on and in her shoes, teases me in public even when she sees sexy shoes on other women. She has even played with herself watching a vid of me fucking/cumming in her shoes. 3rd time is a charm!!
Really? Then why bother showing your legs and feet? Why paint your toenails and show them off? Why wear open toe shoes of any styles?
Perhaps she doesn't understand that for you, us, its far more than a look. Its as much an arousal issue as seeing her nipples/breasts, even to see her pussy. Maybe express to her you want to enjoy and pleasure all of her, right down to her toes. Then offer to give her foot massages, see where that leads. Other side is if she really loves and respects you then she should understand your feelings too.
I wish I had openly expressed it with my 1st wife, and she had well over a 100 pairs of sexy 70s and 80s heels she wore daily with pantyhose. After we divorced I dated a gal that caught on to my fetishes though I never openly said anything about them and she used my fetish to her advantage. My 2nd wife, I told her openly about it and she was great about it, until we were married then it all went cold. My current fiance, I have been very open about it and she loves the attention on her feet, and she indulges me all the time. She is even ok for shoejobs, cumming on and in her shoes, teases me in public even when she sees sexy shoes on other women. She has even played with herself watching a vid of me fucking/cumming in her shoes. 3rd time is a charm!!